Friday, September 19, 2003
Hah.... I'm back! Err... not that my lunch is a few hours long. Only a little occupied...
Now... where was I? Oh... It didn't turn out very well either for the second so I was single for a while. Then... (ehehhe...) I get to know an impressive and romantic guy. Well, got to know his friend first but he was more interested in me than his friend was. I was at SCDF Bendemeer camp for an Inter-School Air-rifle shoot when I knew him. We didn't go out til about a couple of weeks later. He impressed me first with the way he introduced himself. Nice person, gentlemanly and romantic... When we were seeing each other, he would buy me gifts whenever he comes back from overseas trip. He gave me flowers or chocolates every month (like an anniversary)... We were together for about 2 years before things changed and turned sour. We broke up about six months later.
From then on, I was single and free as a bird!!! I felt oh, so relief that I wasn't 'tied' to anyone and I don't have to report to anybody (well, except my parents... eheheh). Even so, I still go on dates and made many friends (err... mostly guys). Hmm... I'd really love to talk more about them but it'll be a long story. Probably next time...
The next time I blog, I'll talk about the great guy friends I went out with and how I treasure the friendship. Then, closer to my wedding, I'll tell you more about my fiance... ehehehe
That's all for today... Hey! It's FRIDAY!!! HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND AHEAD...
Now... where was I? Oh... It didn't turn out very well either for the second so I was single for a while. Then... (ehehhe...) I get to know an impressive and romantic guy. Well, got to know his friend first but he was more interested in me than his friend was. I was at SCDF Bendemeer camp for an Inter-School Air-rifle shoot when I knew him. We didn't go out til about a couple of weeks later. He impressed me first with the way he introduced himself. Nice person, gentlemanly and romantic... When we were seeing each other, he would buy me gifts whenever he comes back from overseas trip. He gave me flowers or chocolates every month (like an anniversary)... We were together for about 2 years before things changed and turned sour. We broke up about six months later.
From then on, I was single and free as a bird!!! I felt oh, so relief that I wasn't 'tied' to anyone and I don't have to report to anybody (well, except my parents... eheheh). Even so, I still go on dates and made many friends (err... mostly guys). Hmm... I'd really love to talk more about them but it'll be a long story. Probably next time...
The next time I blog, I'll talk about the great guy friends I went out with and how I treasure the friendship. Then, closer to my wedding, I'll tell you more about my fiance... ehehehe
That's all for today... Hey! It's FRIDAY!!! HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND AHEAD...
I've known many people... err... I mean, guys... since I was 14. The first person I fell in love with (at least, I thought so) was a schoolmate. I was in secondary 3 then I do not deny that he made an impact in my life. He was fun to be with, easy to talk to and can be romantic. Well, he can be irritating too at times... eheheh... But things couldn't happen for us (although, I thought the friendship between us was 'magical').
Then, I got closer to another schoolmate (same age as myself) whom gave me some first impression: boastful and egoistic. ehehehe... I got closer to him only after three years being his classmate. We were quite into each other and were very loving.. hehehe... til the entire school noticed and a few teachers had to counsel us. Well, it's not like we kiss and hug each other and all. Just that we were always seen together. But probably we both changed as we grow older and things doesn't seem to fit as perfectly as before. We seperated.
Ooops!!! Lunch time now. I'll continue when I'm back...
Then, I got closer to another schoolmate (same age as myself) whom gave me some first impression: boastful and egoistic. ehehehe... I got closer to him only after three years being his classmate. We were quite into each other and were very loving.. hehehe... til the entire school noticed and a few teachers had to counsel us. Well, it's not like we kiss and hug each other and all. Just that we were always seen together. But probably we both changed as we grow older and things doesn't seem to fit as perfectly as before. We seperated.
Ooops!!! Lunch time now. I'll continue when I'm back...
Tuesday, September 16, 2003
I'm feeling sick today. Down with cold and feeling feverish. I've got shooting today and don't think I'm going to miss it. Probably take some pills and hope feel better by evening...
Monday, September 15, 2003
For a friend who asked me the questions...
My wedding will be on 11 October 2003 and I can say it's going to be a pretty big event in my family's calender. Before you continue reading, I would suggest you read on this article on malay wedding in Singapore so you would understand better what I mean ; )
I have engaged services by...
- Anggun Andaman (Actual day make-up),
- Bridal Concept (Actual day photography and studio photography),
- Haq Wedding Services (Decor and dais for multi-purpose hall),
- Cardlink Trading (Well, obviously invitation cards),
- Muzika (Videography), etc.
My friend also asked how do I know that my fiance is the one for me? Hmmm... actually I can never be too sure about it. Of course I have thought about the good and not so good things about us being together. I have found that he's the best person for me to spend my lifetime with. He is patient, understanding, caring and loving. Most importantly, he knows what my interests and goals are and he allows me to pursue my ambitions. It is natural to have some kind of fear of something unknown but I think the most I can do is plan and make the best decisions. If things were to turn out a little different, then it's time for me to think of ways to make it better for the both of us.
My fiance and I have talked about where we would stay while in the process of getting a flat, how to organise our time with work, personal and family commitments, etc. We can talk about anything at all. I have learnt to be patient, sensitive towards his feelings and understand his irregular hour job. I'm sure he also have learnt about my passion for shooting and he can see obviously that I am the kind of person who has this hunger for knowledge. I want to learn anything (formal or on my own) that catches my interest; from kickboxing to shooting to fashion designing to drawing to photography to computer applications to SCDF courses... and it goes on and on and on... ehehehhe.
Like I have mentioned, we can never be too sure if he/she is the right person but we can always make the best and rational decisions. I realised that just because I love someone doesn't mean I will be marrying him. (I'm not saying that it is not a factor in a relationship). Only when it comes to something this serious, I think I would prefer to think rationally and really weigh the pros and cons of living with one particular person for the rest of my life. Hmm... won't you?
My wedding will be on 11 October 2003 and I can say it's going to be a pretty big event in my family's calender. Before you continue reading, I would suggest you read on this article on malay wedding in Singapore so you would understand better what I mean ; )
I have engaged services by...
- Anggun Andaman (Actual day make-up),
- Bridal Concept (Actual day photography and studio photography),
- Haq Wedding Services (Decor and dais for multi-purpose hall),
- Cardlink Trading (Well, obviously invitation cards),
- Muzika (Videography), etc.
My friend also asked how do I know that my fiance is the one for me? Hmmm... actually I can never be too sure about it. Of course I have thought about the good and not so good things about us being together. I have found that he's the best person for me to spend my lifetime with. He is patient, understanding, caring and loving. Most importantly, he knows what my interests and goals are and he allows me to pursue my ambitions. It is natural to have some kind of fear of something unknown but I think the most I can do is plan and make the best decisions. If things were to turn out a little different, then it's time for me to think of ways to make it better for the both of us.
My fiance and I have talked about where we would stay while in the process of getting a flat, how to organise our time with work, personal and family commitments, etc. We can talk about anything at all. I have learnt to be patient, sensitive towards his feelings and understand his irregular hour job. I'm sure he also have learnt about my passion for shooting and he can see obviously that I am the kind of person who has this hunger for knowledge. I want to learn anything (formal or on my own) that catches my interest; from kickboxing to shooting to fashion designing to drawing to photography to computer applications to SCDF courses... and it goes on and on and on... ehehehhe.
Like I have mentioned, we can never be too sure if he/she is the right person but we can always make the best and rational decisions. I realised that just because I love someone doesn't mean I will be marrying him. (I'm not saying that it is not a factor in a relationship). Only when it comes to something this serious, I think I would prefer to think rationally and really weigh the pros and cons of living with one particular person for the rest of my life. Hmm... won't you?
